Topics · 18 min
Love reading practice
Put the course together: a six-step routine for your own love readings, a full worked example, and two practice readings the coach can comment on.
In this lesson you will
- Run a love reading from question to one sentence you can act on.
- Link the cards of a love reading into one story about your side of the relationship.
- Reread your own reading and rewrite any sentence that speaks for the other person.
You have started seeing someone new, and you like him. You also lie awake after every date, going over what he said and what it might mean. Tonight, instead of drawing again and again, you decide to do one careful reading, from the question to a sentence you can live with.
A routine for your own love readings
Everything in this course fits into six steps. Run them in order, and keep the last one even when the reading feels kind. It is the step that keeps the reading honest.
- 1 Question: check it for subject, action and picture.
- 2 Spread: let the shape of the question choose it.
- 3 Cards: read each from its love reading, in its position.
- 4 Links: join each card to at least one other.
- 5 Sentence: end with one thing you can do.
- 6 Check: underline every sentence whose subject is the other person's inner life, and rewrite it.
This lesson is part of Plus
Plus opens every lesson of the Practitioner, Reader and Advanced tiers and the topic courses, with practice that explains every answer.
What the lesson covers
- A full reading
- Your turn
- Practice readings
- Practice
Foundations and the first lesson of every course are free.